Why I Use Belief Coding® to Help Women Stop Hiding and Start Owning Their Worth

I’ve always trusted my gut. That’s one thing I never lost. But somewhere along the way - between life, motherhood, career, expectations, trying to keep everyone else happy - I lost me.

I used to be brave. Fierce, even. The kind of child who had opinions, ideas, and didn’t wait to be asked twice. But life chipped away at that version of me. Slowly. Quietly. Until I was showing up as a fraction of who I really was — unsure, hiding, and feeling like maybe I’d imagined that brave girl altogether.

Belief Coding® changed that.

It helped me not just remember who I was — but actually start living as her again.

Now, I use it to help other women do the same. Because I know I’m not the only one who’s been quietly shrinking to make life work.

Why So Many Women Feel Disconnected from Themselves

Let’s be honest — we weren’t exactly raised to trust ourselves.

We were raised to be polite. To be agreeable. To be nice, helpful, selfless, not “too much”. We were praised for being good girls and quiet achievers. And somewhere in the middle of all that… we learned to doubt our own voice.

We learned to ask for permission. We started overthinking everything.
We learned to keep going, even when we were exhausted.
We learned to downplay our success, and apologise for our needs.

We learned to do, not just be.

That’s what I call the “masculine way” of living — all logic, no feeling. All pushing, no pausing. It’s not bad. It’s just not the full picture.

The feminine way is something different. It’s about slowing down. Feeling more. Trusting more. It’s softer, but no less powerful.

It’s what many of us are craving without knowing how to ask for it.

What Belief Coding® Actually Does

Belief Coding® is a bit like rewiring your emotional sat nav. It helps you spot the hidden beliefs that are quietly running the show — the ones that tell you you're not good enough, that success has to be hard, that people won’t like you if you're too loud, too direct, too you.

Once you find them, you can change them.

It’s not therapy. It’s not a pep talk. And it’s definitely not about “thinking positive”. It’s deep, fast, and practical. It goes to the emotional root of what’s holding you back — and then gently gets rid of it.

I’ve used it with women who’ve spent years stuck in people-pleasing, exhaustion, and perfectionism. And within weeks, they’re making braver decisions, taking up space, setting boundaries, and finally seeing themselves with fresh eyes.

My Story: From Hiding to Homecoming

When I found Belief Coding®, I didn’t second-guess myself — I just knew. I didn’t even watch the masterclass. I immediately signed up for the training with a full-body yes.

Not because I thought I needed fixing. I don’t even know why I just knew I needed to train and become a facilitator. No logical thought at all - that’s following your intuition.

The more I trained, the more I noticed it. I started walking taller. I spoke up more. I felt seen — by myself, first and foremost. And what a relief that was.

I went from someone who blended into the background to someone who could stand in a room and own it. Not in a shouty, performative way — in a calm, “I know who I am” kind of way.

I stopped apologising. I stopped hiding. And I started living as the version of me I’d tucked away for years. My confidence was back and I was so much happier.

What Life Looks Like When You Start Backing Yourself

It’s not about suddenly being loud or fearless or bossy.

It’s about making choices that actually feel good — without second-guessing.
It’s about trusting yourself to say no.
It’s about asking for what you want — and not feeling guilty about it.
It’s about showing up in your relationships, your work, your life as the woman you truly are.

The one who isn’t constantly searching for reassurance.
The one who doesn’t need everyone else to agree before making a move.
The one who knows that confidence doesn’t come from a book, a quote, or a seminar — it comes from within.

How I Use Belief Coding® to Help Women Come Back to Themselves

I bring this work into two key programs:

The Olivia Breakthrough Experience
A 4-month personalised 1:1 program for ambitious women who feel stuck in old patterns and are ready to to live life in a way that flows with ease that you actually get to enjoy. As part of the experience we use Belief Coding® to shift what’s in the way - fast - so you can move forward with clarity and confidence.

The Transformation Code
A focused, three-session experience for women who know exactly where they feel stuck — and want to clear it now. It’s direct, impactful, and tailored to help you shift that one thing that keeps tripping you up.

A Final Word

I don’t believe in forcing change. I believe in uncovering the truth that’s already there — the part of you that’s been waiting (sometimes for years) to feel seen, safe, and strong again.

That’s what Belief Coding® did for me.
And that’s what I help other women find too.

If you’re tired of trying to be more, maybe it’s time to come back to who you already are — and live like you actually believe in her.

The Transformation Code is where we start.